Why You Shouldn't Stop Nighttime Breastfeeding for Your Six-Month-Old

It seems to be working for you and baby. If you're already nursing your six-month-old at night and both of you enjoy it, then why would you want to break the habit? Let's explore the reasons why numerous mothers, including myself, choose to continue nursing well beyond the recommended age of weaning.

The Benefits of Continuing Nighttime Breastfeeding

Many mothers find that nighttime breastfeeding creates a strong and comforting bond between them and their baby. It's a natural and special ritual that can be difficult to replicate with other methods. Furthermore, there's no need to free up your schedule—just as you would cuddle with your baby in other ways, it's a form of bonding that adds to your routine. If you aren't drying up naturally, why rush the process before a year or two is up?

Research has shown that drying up too early can be detrimental. According to the NHS, breastfeeding for seven years reduces the risk of breast cancer by 90 percent. Additionally, breast milk provides valuable antibodies that help your child stay healthy and resist diseases. Any disruption to this natural process can be risky for both your health and your baby’s.

Tools to Help Persist

It's normal for your child to resist taking a bottle at night, especially if they're accustomed to the warmth and comfort of the breast. Here are some tips to help ease the transition:

Change Bottles Gradually: Introduce a new bottle slowly and let your baby get used to the different feel. Use different nipples: Sometimes a different nipple can encourage your child to take the bottle. Bring comforts: Bring your baby to a different room for feeding or bring familiar comforts like blankets or swaddling wraps. Stay patient: Persistence is key. Keep offering the bottle, even if it takes days or weeks.

Some babies, even when they begin to gradually wean off other feeds, seem to cling to the nighttime breastfeeding session. This is perfectly normal, and many toddlers will continue to nurse at bedtime even after stopping other feeds. It's a comforting ritual that helps them feel secure and safe.

The Risks of Sudden Weaning

Some advice to stop nighttime breastfeeding abruptly can be misleading and potentially harmful. For young babies under 6–8 months, it's unnecessary and detrimental to try to make them "self-soothe" by leaving them to cry before sleep. This can lead to longer nights and even health issues for your baby.

Instead, consider easing the transition gradually. This can include:

Replacing breast time with bonding: Carry out those special rituals like singing lullabies, reading stories, or gentle massages to replace the comforting act of breastfeeding. Gradual reduction: Slowly decrease the duration of the nighttime feed over the course of a few weeks or months. Seek professional advice: Consult your pediatrician for personalized advice tailored to your baby's needs.

Remember, breastfeeding to sleep is both natural and beneficial. It's a moment of pure enjoyment and relaxation for both you and your baby. Enjoy it while it lasts and resist the urge to rush the process. Your baby will eventually wean off on their own, and you'll adapt to a new routine.