Unconventional Wedding Songs: Perfect for a Stormy Relationship
Weddings are a time of joy and celebration, but some couples choose to walk down the aisle to songs that are a bit more unconventional. These songs not only reflect their unique relationship but also add a memorable touch to their special day. From Bruce Springsteen's Tunnel of Love to Buddy Holly's Well…Alright, here are some lesser-known songs perfect for a wedding.
The Unconventional Wedding of My Former Sister-in-Law and Her Fiancée
The aisle of my former sister-in-law's wedding was lined with emotion and a hint of drama. The couple chose two songs that perfectly reflected their complex and stormy relationship.
As they walked down the aisle, they played Tunnel of Love by Bruce Springsteen, a song that often speaks of pain and heartbreak. This was a fitting choice, as the couple had a tumultuous relationship with a relationship marked by infidelity—both before and after the wedding. After the ceremony, the newlyweds walked back to Brilliant Disguise, another Springsteen song that resonates with their deep love and deep emotional journey. It's clear that these songs weren't just random choices; they were carefully selected to capture the essence of their relationship.
“Sex, drugs, and rock and roll. It’s not all it seems.”
My Personal Wedding with a Band
For my wedding, my partner and I both played in a band. So, we made it a wedding ceremony highlight by bringing our band, with a substitute drummer, bassist, and vocalist. I walked down the aisle to the iconic 1960s hit A Whiter Shade of Pale by Procol Harum. It was a dramatic entrance, and while there isn't a recording of my version, I encourage everyone to listen to the original to fully appreciate the majesty of the song.
During the ceremony, our on-and-off singer performed I Love You Just the Way You Are by Billy Joel as an interlude. This was a personal touch that added warmth and humor to the proceedings. Following that, our good guitarist played Watchtower by Bob Dylan, adhering to the Dylan version rather than the famous Jimi Hendrix cover. The garden was open to visitors, and during the ceremony, a bus of camera-toting Japanese tourists pulled up. Despite their uninvited presence, my friend, dressed in full Highland Scot regalia, attempted to flag them off. However, I looked up to see about 50 people filming our "typical American wedding" with video cameras. So much for it being typical!
A classic from John Lennon: Grow Old Along With Me
When choosing a song for a wedding, one must also consider classics. Grow Old Along With Me by John Lennon, performed by Craig Skene, is a wonderful choice for a wedding. This song perfectly captures the essence of a long-lasting relationship. You can listen to the video on DailyMotion for a poignant reminder of the power of love.
Choosing a Different Path: My Nephew's Wedding
My nephew and his wife opted for a different song, which was equally unique. They started the song and the door was still closed. A few seconds before the vocals began, the door was opened, and she began her descent down the aisle just as the vocals started at around 1:08 mark. This was a clever and charming touch, adding a touch of surprise and anticipation to the moment.
For their special day, they played Well Alright by Buddy Holly, which accurately sums up the essence of marriage. It's a song that reflects the small compromises and understanding that come with staying together. It's a nod to the fact that marriage is not just about the passion and romance but also about the quotidian challenges and the commitment to weather them together. After the ceremony, they played the Blind Faith cover, adding to the unique and memorable experience.
These examples demonstrate that even in the most ordinary of days, unique choices can make a world of difference. Whether it's a dramatic Bruce Springsteen song or a charming Buddy Holly gem, these choices reflect the couple's love and individuality, making their wedding truly unforgettable.