The Empowering Art of Helping Others: Reflecting on Personal Experiences
Have you ever assisted someone? How did you feel afterwards? For many, the act of helping others is a fulfilling experience that brings a sense of accomplishment and positivity. I have always been inclined to help and believe that it creates a profound feeling of satisfaction and fulfillment.
A Personal Experience in Helping
It goes without saying that after helping someone, there is an immense feeling of joy and positivity. When I see someone smile because of my assistance, it is truly the best kind of reward. I help people not for the recognition, but purely to feel good from within. Though I do not have much to give, the act of helping boosts my energy and leaves me feeling uplifted.
Observing the Self and Letting Go of Ego
Sometimes, we are not the ones doing the deeds. Understanding that I am merely an observer can be both humbling and enlightening. Meditation plays a significant role in this realization. For those interested, the Art of Living has daily meditation programs that can help achieve such clarity. As my father often says, when we help others, we must ensure it does not harm them in any way.
When helping others, we need a clear idea of where and what we are doing. However, if we start helping others, we learn everything we need to know. My approach is simple: I do what I can, and if I make a mistake, I try not to repeat it. I take advice to improve my effectiveness in helping others.
The Importance of Genuine Assistance
It is a question that often arises: why is helping others considered a big deal? Some rare instances make it a miracle. People share their stories of how they have been helped, and it's truly heartwarming. However, I believe that the act of helping is part of being human. Even animals help each other, and it's a natural part of our survival and well-being.
What really matters is not the stories of how we help others, but how we have been helped ourselves. An instance from my own life in Bangalore illustrates the power of genuine assistance. I was confused and lost, and a girl unknowingly behind me started asking me questions. Despite being agitated, she guided me and offered assistance when I was in dire need. She even booked a cab for me when my own app did not work, and insisted on standing by me until the cab departed.
This experience taught me the value of a supportive act, regardless of whether it is done intentionally or not. A simple gesture can make a significant difference. In that moment, I realized the importance of these acts of kindness in our lives.
The Power of Gratitude and Kindness
When we help others, we must remember not to count the costs. Instead, we should always remember the reasons why and under what circumstances we received help. In life, there is a balance between giving and receiving. If we aim to do good without seeking recognition, it can create a chain of positivity and change.
Ultimately, the essence of life is in these small acts of kindness. Whether it is in our personal lives or society as a whole, the act of helping others fosters a sense of community and belonging. Believing in the power of good deeds and miracles can lead to a more fulfilling and connected existence.
Conclusion
Helping others, in its truest form, is a magnanimous act that enriches both the giver and the receiver. It is a process of personal growth and a reminder of the interconnectedness of humanity. Let us all strive to do more good, without seeking much in return. Love and peace go with all of us.