Kabir Singh: A Movie Beyond Romantic Desire - Exploring the Theme of Friendship
I watched Kabir Singh at my wife’s insistence, partly due to her friend's recommendation. Contrary to my usual bias against Bollywood films, I found myself engrossed by the narrative, particularly the performances, especially Kiara Advani's portrayal. However, the film left me with some troubling thoughts after the credits rolled.
Friendship and Bullying in Kabir Singh
Kabir Singh is undeniably a movie that delves into complex themes, including friendship and romantic entanglements. While Shahid Kapoor's character is central, the profound connection between Kabir and Shiva emerges as a touching heartline. The audience's admiration for Soham Majumdar's portrayal of Shiva lies in his unwavering support, even to the point of arranging his sister's marriage to prevent Kabir from self-harming.
Reinventing 'Friendship' on Screen
Shiva, through Soham Majumdar's performance, redefines the concept of 'friendship' on the big screen. His character illustrates the true essence of friendship: unwavering support, love, and understanding. Below, we explore the 10 essential qualities that make up a best friend:
1. Defending You
Your best friend is always there to defend you, from a lecturer to the Dean or police. They stand by you in every situation. For example, Shiva stands up for Kabir when he is bullied by the college's big bad bully.
2. Understanding Your Love
Your best friend doesn't need to be told to understand your love. They know your heart without you having to express it. Shiva’s care for Kabir is evident in his willingness to arrange a marriage to protect Kabir from his own destructive behavior.
3. Sensibly Pointing Out Mistakes
A true best friend always tells you where you've gone wrong. They provide guidance and honest communication, especially in the realm of relationships. In Kabir Singh, Shiva acts as a balance to Kabir, helping him navigate his emotions and choices.
4. Never Leaving You Alone
Best friends stay by your side, no matter your pain. They are always behind you, even if your life is turned upside down. Shiva’s constant presence and support for Kabir throughout the story exemplify this quality.
5. Knowing Pain
Your best friend understands your pain. They know every situation without needing discussions. Their pain becomes your pain. Shiva's deep emotional connection with Kabir is apparent in how he feels the struggles and trauma alongside him.
6. Strong Support
You cannot see your friends in pain. Best friends will always save their friends 'at any cost'. Shiva's willingness to arrange his sister's marriage to protect Kabir is a powerful display of this love.
7. Second Home
Your best friend's home is a safe haven for you. Shiva’s commitment to Kabir’s well-being, even by going as far as arranging a marriage to protect Kabir, symbolizes the stability and care of a best friend.
8. Affection
Your best friend never hesitates to hug you or wipe your tears when you are in pain. Shiva’s actions and words throughout the film exemplify this sense of affection and care.
9. Trust
Your best friend's trust is unwavering, even when it comes to your family. If a best friend tells you something is not right, you should act on it. Shiva’s actions and his unwavering support of Kabir demonstrate the trust a best friend brings to the relationship.
10. Candidness
Your conversation with a best friend should be candid, no secrets. If it's not, it’s not the right friendship. Shiva and Kabir's relationship is built on candid and honest communication, showing the trust they share.
Conclusion
Kabir Singh offers more than just a love story. It illuminates the profound nature of friendship through the character of Shiva. This movie is a testament to the unwavering support and love that true friendships can bring into our lives. Watch this film to gain a deeper understanding of what true friendship means.