Encountering Kindness: Stories from Sydney's Stage and Screen
Meeting Kindness in Hollywood
During my early days as a struggling actor in Hollywood during the 1970s, I had a rather unconventional job working for an escort service. The experience exposed me to a diverse range of personalities, but one individual left an indelible impression on me due to his genuine kindness.
The stars who visited the escort service were predominantly used to being treated with disdain, but there was a notable exception: Jimmy Stewart. He was a true gentleman who always wore a condom and avoided rough sex. Despite being a Hollywood legend, he treated me with empathy, a reflection of his genuine and timeless character. His story, a testament to the power of kindness in the face of fame, highlights the importance of compassion for others.
Jazz and Classics: June Christy
Life in Sydney, Australia presented me with a different kind of encounter with celebrities. In the 1960s, a string of US-based cabaret artists, including June Christy, graced the stage of the Chevron-Hilton in Sydney, transforming an ordinary gig into an unforgettable experience.
Christy, one of the greatest white jazz singers of her time, was beloved by her fans. During her performances, audience members often requested autographs and souvenirs. However, my request for June Christy’s autograph was met with a surprising response. The waiter who was tasked with collecting signatures always returned, but June Christy’s stack was mysteriously empty. Upon being asked to meet her backstage, she engaged the group in a friendly conversation, showing genuine interest and respect. Her authenticity was further evident when she insisted on purchasing the LP for herself, as she believed everyone should do so. She even left a photograph of the group, a tangible reminder of her kindness and thoughtfulness.
Empathy and Inspiration: Johnnie Ray
Another experience that left an eternal mark on my heart was my encounter with Johnnie Ray. This renowned singer, known for his powerful voice and empathy for his listeners, faced a unique challenge due to his deafness. Despite his physical limitations, he turned a limitation into an opportunity for inspiration.
In an episode on the radio, Johnnie Ray shared his experience of hearing loss and his dream of connecting with young deaf people. This touching moment led to an impromptu meeting with a unit of hearing-impaired children. Johnnie spent hours chatting with them, showing genuine interest in their aspirations and experiences. Despite his busy schedule and the protests of his manager, he never wavered in his commitment to this group. His kindness inspired the children deeply, and many of them still recall his visit with awe and gratitude. This encounter underscores the profound impact that empathy and kindness can have on others.
Conclusion
These encounters in Sydney illustrate the profound impact that genuine kindness can have, regardless of one's status or profession. Whether it was Jimmy Stewart's empathy as a Hollywood icon or June Christy and Johnnie Ray's kindness to fans and admirers, these experiences serve as powerful reminders of the importance of treating others with respect and compassion. As we navigate the challenges of fame and success, it is essential to never lose sight of the simple acts of kindness that can profoundly influence the lives of others.